Having mutual feelings doesn't constitute a perfect or should I say a long-lasting relationship. Hell yeah, I do agree that feelings may be the underlying reason why a guy and a girl get together, however it's just the thing that brings them together but it's definitely not the sole thing to maintaining a relationship.
Through a relationship, you will get to see and experience points you'll like about your other half. On the other hand, points that you consider bad or unacceptable might surface as the relationship progresses. But mind you, what you consider bad or unacceptable might be on the contrary to your other half. He/she might thinks its perfectly alright or normal to think/act that way.
This is what I would like to call mindset or thinking differences.
At this point of time, feelings comes back into the equation once again.
Are your feelings deep enough for you to accept the so called "bad" or "unacceptable" points of your soul mate?
Are your feelings deep enough for you to change the so called "bad" or "unacceptable" points for your soul mate?
Yes, I am sure majority tried, but not many succeeded in the permanent acceptances and changes. You might think it's possible at the start of these processes, but many find that they will still revert back to square one as time passes. It is not exactly that surprising as these behaviours and thinkings have been stuck with you for some 10 odds 20 plus years. Be it changing your perception towards some acts or changing your behaviour isn't easy.
At the end of the day, I would like to stress to you people some things that I know I stressed before. Take some time before you hit the sacks to think about the feelings versus the practical problems that you are facing right now. Come to a conclusion of your own, don't listen to the opinions of others, listen to your heart and mind.
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